When we moved to Italy almost 3 years ago (how has it already been 3 years?!) it was a dream come true. We embarked on this journey with the Air Force knowing we wanted to travel and take advantage of the opportunities given to us. We were lucky to get Italy as our first base.
We've become accustomed to "small town" Italian life. The stores aren't open 24/7 and most close mid day. We can't go to a restaurant whenever we want. It can be inconvenient at times but you get used to it. In the states you can "get everything right now" and here it's not like that. It makes your days more planned and relaxed vs go,go, go. Our house is nice but small so it's not filled with fancy furniture or decor, but it's perfect for us! We make it work. I would be lying if I said I wasn't excited to one day have a dishwasher and actual closets again, but I do really hope we keep bits of this lifestyle when we go stateside. You don't need the best of the best to be happy, drive thrus (only a few around here and they're not close by), starbucks, Targets etc. basically convenience at every corner.
I can admit that I sometimes get sucked into the Instagram/Pinterest world, especially after having Noah. Mom jealousy can be very real. Beautifully decorated homes, perfect DIYs, kids dressed fabulously etc. especially when a lot of these things aren't right at your finger tips. I have to remember where our own priorities are at.
When you think about what you do have vs what you don't have or what your wants are you quickly realize you have more than enough.
Once we moved traveling was a top priority. We saved money for big trips and spent less to afford the smaller ones. "I haven't been everywhere, but it's on my list." This quote is so me and it probably drives my husband a little crazy! I just love collecting special moments with my family. I will never forget seeing Santorini's blue doors, crystal clear waters of Dubrovnik, my baby staring in awe at the eiffel tower or when he had pizza for the very first time in sicily! I don't need fancy hotels, souvenirs or expensive meals. Give me my camera and I'm a happy girl!!
I know that looking back I will be so happy we lived a simpler life to afford the richer moments while overseas. There is so much of the states I haven't seen yet that I hope to keep traveling. I don't think my wanderlust heart will ever go away.
Our kids won't remember what brand shoes they were wearing but how they felt in that moment with you.
Travel and make memories! The TV can wait ;)
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